1. Most Husband believe it is important for them to protect and provide for those they love. Let him know that you believe in his talents and skills and are supportive of him.

2. Understanding you can both tell and show your husband that you want to understand him is by making a commitment to dialogue with him. Daily dialogue only takes few minutes a day. Isn't your husband worth 20-30 minutes each day?

3. Most men like to be patted on the back. Compliment your husband often. Just don't over do it with sickly sweet oozes of how great he is. That type of affirmation will backfire.

4. Husbands are hurt and angered when their wives try to change them. Realize that the only person that you can change is yourself.

5. If your husband is tired, or involved with a project, and you want to talk to him about something, gets to the point. If he wants the details, he will ask for them.

6. Hold your husband's hand in public, leave a message of love on his mail, massage his shoulders and give him an unexpected kiss. Men like to be romanced too!

7. Show always respect for your husband by not making negative comments about his thoughts and opinions, by being considerate of his plans and by avoiding the "eye roll" when listening to him.

8. Everyone has a desire for some time alone and time to re-energize and reconnect. When your husband first gets home from work, allow him some free time to unwind. Don't over-schedule his days off.

9. Trust is vital for success of a marriage. If you are having doubts about your husband and find it difficult to trust him, seek counseling and not spying.

10. Hopefully, you can say that your husband is not only your lover, but also your friend. Staying friends and companions through the years requires that you find ways to make time together and to do things together